Dont
check-out on me!
By Christa Sandelier,
Complex Coordinator, Colorado State University
So, have
you ever worked with someone (or maybe you currently are) who after announcing
that they were leaving to accept another position, checked-out
of their responsibilities? I have, and for so long it frustrated me because
then I had to pick up the slack or just resolve that they
didnt care anymore. After some introspection Ive realized
that maybe they checked-out because I checked-out on them.
Ive
noticed that once a job search is announced that in some instances, that
person is no longer included in committees or planning projects. There
might be a committee formed for a project that will continue into next
year. The person who is leaving their position is usually not invited
to be a part of that group. It is usually stated, what do you care,
you wont be here, this wont affect you, you should focus on
finishing things up, and the list goes on.
How far
do we go to make people matter when they arrive? We make welcome signs
and have parties. We take them around to different offices to introduce
them to others. We also talk about all the great things we are planning
and try to involve them in as many things as they wish, but what about
that person who is leaving? Do we make them feel like they matter? What
do we do to include them?
Now, Im
not saying that the person leaving does not have any responsibility in
this issue. Ive seen the high-fives signaling Im
out of here, you can deal with that next year, but I wonder how
much of that is real and how much of that is a defense mechanism really
meaning, if you dont care about me, Im not going to
care about you?
Its
important to make all employees feel like they matter. Support them in
their endeavors and treat them with the professional respect that you
would any other employee. Take time to touch base with the people you
supervise and make sure they are feeling like they matter to the organization.
If someone is leaving a position, it doesnt necessarily mean that
they do not like their job. It might just mean that it is time to move
on.
For those
of you leaving positions, care about your job until the end. Care about
it even after you leave, for you still have colleagues working there.
For those of you supervising or working with these individuals dont
check-out on them, youd be surprised that most of them
do not want to check-out on you.
About the Author
Christa
Sandelier is currently in her 3rd year as a Complex Coordinator for Colorado
State University in the Department of Housing and Food Services. She graduated
with a B.S. in Horticulture from Delaware Valley College and a M.S. from
Shippensburg University. Christa was recently named the 2001-2002 Outstanding
Professional from CPAC (College Personnel Association of Colorado). She
has also published "Continuing the Search" - Chapter 5 in the
ACUHO-I text Pursuing a Career in Housing; "Self Injury: Hurts
So Good" - Power Point Presentation on-line at www.reslife.net;
"Pet Policy" - Colorado State University, Dept. of Housing and
Food Services; and "Our Community" - Chicken Soup for the College
Soul.